Jacobs, Alan (2013-09-30). The "Book of Common Prayer": A Biography (Lives of Great Religious Books) (pp. 40-41). Princeton University Press. Kindle Edition.
"The obvious contrast to the penitential tone of the rite for visiting the sick is the joyful marriage liturgy, The Form of Solemnization of Matrimony, the best-known rite in the prayer book. Phrases from it come easily to mind, and it need not be described in detail here. But the theology (and perhaps also the personal experience) underlying it should be noted.
"The word `solemnization' does not perhaps sound joyous, but it is meant here to indicate that marriage is indeed a religious rite: not a civil contract, but a `holy estate' of life, as it is called in the opening pastoral discourse, which `Christ adorned and beautified with his presence, and first miracle that he wrought in Cana of Galilee.' The rite is quite insistent on this point, and one cannot help suspecting that this is not just a repudiation of the common medieval belief that the chaste life of the `religious' (priest, monk, or nun) is intrinsically holier than the married life, though certainly Cranmer does mean to repudiate that idea. But also, Cranmer himself risked much by getting married, and did so twice. We know almost nothing about his first marriage , except that it occurred sometime between 1515 and 1519, that his wife’s name was Joan, and that he had to resign his fellowship at Jesus College, Oxford , when he wed, leaving him to scrape for a living.
"Joan died in childbirth, and their child died too, after which Jesus College offered to return his old fellowship. This led in turn to his being ordained as deacon and then as priest. As Diarmaid MacCulloch points out, if Joan had lived Cranmer would never have been ordained, and the difference that would have made to the English Reformation, and to any possible common-prayer book, is impossible to calculate though undoubtedly enormous. But she died, he was ordained, and by the time he married again— to the niece-by-marriage of a leading German Lutheran pastor— he was already Archbishop of Canterbury. We have noted his care to send his family away when Henry insisted on the absolute necessity of clerical celibacy, which may only indicate compassion, not marital devotion.
But two small moments in the Rite for the Solemnization of Matrimony perhaps tell us a little more. As with all the prayer book’s liturgies, this one draws on medieval forms: most of it simply translates the Sarum rite, which listed two primary justifications for marriage. First , marriage supports the procreation of children, and second, it is a `remedy against sin': as the bachelor St. Paul had written long before, `I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they abide even as I. But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn' (1 Corinthians 7: 8 –9).
"But Cranmer added to these a third justification for marriage: `for the mutual society, help, and comfort, that the one ought to have of the other, both in prosperity and adversity.' 21
"Moreover, the Sarum order contained these words: I, [name], take thee, [name], to my wedded wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness, and in health, till death us depart: according to God’s holy ordinance: And thereto I plight thee my troth. But to this existing form Cranmer added one more clause, one more obligation of the Christian husband to his wife, just before the mention of being parted by death: `to love and to cherish.'" 22
Jacobs, Alan (2013-09-30). The "Book of Common Prayer": A Biography (Lives of Great Religious Books) (pp. 40-41). Princeton University Press. Kindle Edition.
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